Visionary Female Educator of 2025

PerceptivX magazine

Dr. Mel Baker’s life journey is one of profound transformation. From a childhood marred by trauma and homelessness to a career that spans the Royal Australian Navy, police chaplaincy, adult education, and filmmaking, she has relentlessly pursued one central mission: to offer hope to the hopeless and to be a voice to the voiceless. In 2020, this mission culminated in the creation of Living Expressions, a global initiative designed to empower individuals, particularly women, by celebrating their personal journeys and triumphs over adversity. The award-winning platform amplifies voices and offers a safe space for storytelling, connecting people from all walks of life. With a website, publication, global events, podcast, and films, the initiative provides a holistic, community-driven approach to mental wellbeingeducation, and empowerment. For Dr. Baker, this work is more than a career—it is the culmination of years of personal struggle, growth, and dedication to helping others heal.

A Journey Rooted in Purpose

It’s impossible to tell the story of Living Expressions without first understanding Dr. Baker’s deep sense of purpose. As a young woman, she was on the brink of ending her life, caught in the grips of childhood abuse, homelessness, and a world that seemed indifferent to her suffering. But hope, as it often does, arrived in an unexpected form—a friend who reached out when she felt completely alone. “At 17, I decided I wanted my life to have meaning,” Dr. Baker says, her voice resolute. “I want to offer hope to others who are struggling, to show them that even in the darkest moments, transformation is possible.”

That decision became the bedrock for everything Dr. Baker would do in her professional life. From her early work in adult education to her time as an international speaker and police chaplain, she has consistently sought to uplift others. In 2015, she founded Unchain Your Wellbeing, a consultancy that provides mental health support for individuals and organizations. Yet, it wasn’t until the global pandemic hit in 2020 that her vision for Living Expressions truly took shape. “The idea came to me before the pandemic, but COVID-19 accelerated its urgency,” Dr. Baker explains. “People were isolated, disconnected, and struggling more than ever. I knew I had to create a space where they could feel seen and heard.” And so, Living Expressions was born—a platform that empowers individuals to share their personal stories in whatever form feels right for them, whether through writing, art, film, or even spoken word.

A Platform for Resilience

At its core, Living Expressions is more than just a storytelling platform; it is a sanctuary for those looking to reclaim their narratives and find strength in vulnerability. While many online spaces prioritize clicks and likes, Dr. Baker is adamant about fostering a community of safety and support. “Our mission is to empower each other,” she says. “We’ve created a space where stories are valued and held with respect, not for sensationalism or profit, but because every voice has the power to heal, inspire, and transform. We stand in solidarity with each other through our shared experiences of struggle and triumph. Additionally, Living Expressions is free to use, making it accessible to everyone.”

Dr. Baker’s leadership and vision are evident in the holistic approach that Living Expressions takes toward mental health, education, and well-being.  As a survivor of trauma herself, she understands the importance of creating a safe, nurturing environment where people can heal, learn, and grow. One of the platform’s standout initiatives is the Living Voices global events, which aim to bring together diverse stories and voices in immersive, interactive experiences. These events are designed to foster connection and community, whether in person or virtually, and feature a range of artistic expressions. “The idea is to create an experience that feels like nothing else,” Dr. Baker says with excitement. “We want people to walk away feeling that they’ve not only shared their stories but have also connected with others in a meaningful way.” This sense of community and shared experience is integral to the success of Living Expressions. “The power of storytelling is that it connects us,” Dr. Baker explains. “When people realize they are not alone, it can change everything. The act of sharing is itself a form of healing.”

A Leader Who Defies Convention

Dr. Baker’s leadership style is as unconventional as the journey that brought her to this point. As a woman in male-dominated fields like the Navy, police service, and education, she has faced countless obstacles. But instead of submitting to them, she has used her experiences to shape her leadership philosophy, which is rooted in servant leadership—an approach that prioritizes the needs of others and focuses on building people up. “In many of the roles I’ve held, I’ve been the only woman in the room,” she shares. “But I’ve never let that define me. I’ve always believed that leadership is about seeing the potential in others, regardless of gender, background, or position. It’s about creating spaces where people can thrive and feel heard.”

Dr. Baker’s commitment to empowering others is also reflected in the way she mentors and engages with her team. “I lead from the ground up, not the top down,” she explains. “I build relationships with the people I work with, because when they succeed, we all succeed. The most rewarding part of my work is seeing others shine and step into their own power.” Her leadership philosophy has not only shaped the success of Living Expressions but has also made her a respected figure in the worlds of education, mental health, and filmmaking. “I defy convention,” she says with a smile. “And I encourage others to do the same.”

A Legacy of Empowerment

Building Living Expressions has not come without its challenges. Dr. Baker’s time is divided between writing books, producing films, running her consultancy, and managing the growing initiatives of Living Expressions. Finding balance is a constant challenge, but Dr. Baker credits mindfulness and staying grounded in the present moment as key to managing the demands of her work. “Living in the present moment is what keeps me grounded,” she says. “It allows me to stay focused on what I can do today, rather than getting overwhelmed by everything I still need to accomplish.” The first book on her life story trilogy, Sleeping Under the Bridge, is now out, with the next two books in development. “As a non-fiction writer, I love reading both fiction and non-fiction books,” she shares. “My main sources of inspiration come from the writings of Dr. Wayne Dyer, Dr. Bruce Lipton, Eckhart Tolle, the Dalai Lama, Dr. Paul Ekman, Lao Tzu, Rumi, and the Bible. These works have influenced my thinking and creativity over the years.” Dr. Baker is also developing feature films based on her personal experiences to inspire and empower individuals facing challenges. Her award-winning short film, Say My Name, which has garnered over 90 international film awards, was recently released and will be available on the Living Expressions website. 

Dr. Baker also creates innovative resources for trauma healing, such as the Wellbeing Roadmap Board Game and the Integrated Risk Analysis for Assistance Dog Organisations, which pairs PTSD service dogs with veterans and first responders. Additionally, she is working on a Trauma Alleviation Project aimed at helping individuals regain better health by alleviating trauma and hypervigilance caused by PTSD. “Now more than ever, with mental health disorders on the rise and social media platforms that are unsafe for both youth and adults, we are seeing increased anxiety, cyberbullying, and scams. People live in fear, and the massive amount of information available online makes it difficult to discern truth from fiction. In our fast-paced society, people are glued to their devices, unable to be present in the moment. This has led to an inability to slow down and enjoy activities like reading a book, which is essential for mental wellbeing. These issues impact not only individuals internally but also education and learning,” shares Dr. Baker explaining the importance of Living Expressions as a platform. “Understanding each generation is also crucial. It’s not about “keeping up the pace”, but rather about learning from each other and opening our views to understand our needs and priorities. We need to find ways to incorporate our differences and celebrate our milestones and personal journeys, as we are all unique. This sometimes means “hanging out” in the places the younger generation frequents to understand their world from their perspective.  While technology and the world are always changing, the essence of humanity remains the same – we need community. We must continue to find ways to build each other up rather than tear down or judge others. Unfortunately, society has lost the art of real community. COVID-19 made all generations aware of the importance of community, but the current pace and stress of life seem to have overtaken this awareness again.”

Dr. Baker is focused on the future, with plans to expand the platform through virtual reality (VR) and augmented reality (AR), which will offer immersive, interactive experiences for participants. AI-driven tools will also play a role in curating content and ensuring the safety of the platform, aligning with Dr. Baker’s mission to create a secure space for everyone. Looking ahead, she is excited about the potential of Living Expressions to continue inspiring change, particularly for women across the globe. “I want to create events and experiences that empower women to embrace their stories and their strength,” she says. “I want to see a global movement of women reclaiming their narratives and supporting each other.”  As for her, the journey has always been about more than just surviving—it’s about thriving, and helping others do the same. “The work I do is my legacy,” she says, her voice filled with conviction. “And I want that legacy to be one of hope, of courage, and of the belief that no matter where we come from, we all have the power to change our lives and make a difference in the world.”

Written by Cayde, PerceptivX magazine

Dr Mel Baker named by PerceptivX on International Women’s Day 8 March 2025

Finding your Purpose: a journey of Rediscovery

Purpose is like the breath of life. For some, it could be more the breadth, depth, and width of life. We often think most about our purpose when we are struggling: as a teenager wondering what job we will do or which university course to take; when we become dissatisfied with our job, career direction, or course; and when we suffer trauma or health issues and lose the role we loved. I’ve been through all three, and the worst was the latter. When you finally find that role that fits you like a glove, you’re passionate about it, you love going to work, being part of the team, and then everything is taken from beneath you. Not only have I experienced it, but I’ve also witnessed and stood beside thousands of emergency services and Defence personnel going through this change once labelled ‘hurt on duty’ then medically discharged. How do we recover from this loss? Not only the loss of something we loved but the loss of our mental health, physical health, passion, drive, and purpose.

One thing I discovered on my journey is that my purpose was never truly lost; it just needed a new way to be expressed. It will certainly be different, and once we accept that, opportunities start to arise. Throughout my life, my purpose has always been education, motivational speaking, and supporting others to be their best. After my time in the police and navy, I found that my drive, passion, and purpose were still thriving. I just had to find the right avenue within my limitations.

After you decide to move forward, what happens next is truly amazing. It’s like the shifting forces of nature were engulfing your whole being beforehand. Most days felt like you were trying to move in the opposite direction through a massive windstorm. Then, the day it all becomes too much, sand flickers into your eyes, disabling your sight, and you feel totally exhausted—physically, mentally, and emotionally. It seems impossible to go on. At this point, we have a choice: give up or keep battling. But there is another choice. Let go. Let go of everything we are holding on to tightly. Allow the storm to pass. Rest our mind and body, then start working on the root cause slowly and steadily. Yes, it’s hard work, but the result is amazing. Things in life start to align again. We feel more connected to life, to friends, to nature, to the world! Indeed, we feel alive! We are survivors, becoming people who can empower others to reach that amazing place too.

Discover Your Purpose

Feeling lost or unsure about your purpose? Check out our feature article of the month on finding your purpose for more insights and inspiration. Ready to take the next step? Use Dr Mel Baker’s purpose-determining tool to uncover your unique path and start living a more fulfilling life today.

Self-Love

Embracing self

Our souls long for love. A tender touch that can only render inside. An expression that every person craves. At times, we can wonder where such love can be? Love can feel so dim inside a lonely heart. What would life be like without love? For we would not know the true meaning of this world, the true depths of relationships and friendships – for what we have and what we hope for is bound in love. 

A common trait among those who become mentally unwell is lack of self-love. We tend to give more to other people’s needs than our own. We tend to care for others, more than we care for ourselves. We tend to love deeply, and hurt deeply, and neglect to give that same love to ourselves, but it seems we have no issue in blaming ourselves for the hurt. 

However, it is not just mental health sufferers who are not great in self-love. Adults who have not suffered from trauma or been diagnosed with a mental health disorder, also struggle with it. From my research, the average mental health sufferer reported 50.3% and the average healthy adult reported 55% that they regularly self-love.

Self-love is a prerequisite to belief in self. Believing in ourselves is one of the strongest internal validations we can have to build our self-worth, have hope, be successful and build a stronger foundation. Without self-love, we would struggle to believe that we can truly make it.

Have you ever felt incredibly stuck? And in that stuck place, a part of you is slowly dying. I felt within me a longing to be nurtured, of who I am with no pretence, no falsehood or invisible masks, no compromise. I have learned that being stuck requires action. If we know how to care and love others beyond description, then we should be able to apply those same principles to ourselves. I must admit it is harder though! We have to start off with the belief that we deserve love, care, attention; and when we start to believe, we then see that receiving love is much easier too. 

If you have no reserves in loving, caring and nurturing yourself; what would your world look like? 

For me, it will be a world of freedom, love, compassion. There will be boundaries. It will most definitely be a safe haven. A place of no fear. A place I can know my needs and wants and freely give me the chance to receive them. A place I offer genuine care and concern as I have done for others for so long, but to also freely give that to me too. This world will have a solid foundation, surrounded by nature, beauty, peace and acceptance; so that when I walk into my world I will feel empowered to be me. 

Ultimately, the more we can love ourselves, the better we will be in serving and helping others and also in receiving their love in return. It’s a win-win.

Publication on self-love will be out September 2021.

Acceptance

How many times have you gone through a life event feeling like your world has crashed? Or you could be just holding it together, then something so tiny comes in your path and that is the thing that has tipped you over. How we deal with every life event has a significant impact on our health and well-being.

When I was in recovery of adult trauma, I built on my well-being research and created about 150 tools over the course of two years. The tools helped me learn more about myself and how to deal with life events in a positive way and they went on to help many other individuals as well. In a St John of God (SJOG) program I attended (2014-2015), on Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT), it widened my horizons in understanding more of my behaviour following trauma. A program that every individual should complete! Like most things I learn, I drew on everything I have read about, attended and utilised in therapy to harness their full potential. This included, my own research, DBT, CBT, ACT and mindfulness. Out of my learning, I created a board game The Wellbeing Roadmap Game that is designed to discover your core values, five senses, a firmations, world views, well-being and acceptance to life events. At the end of the game, you walk away with tools to use when stressed and more of an understanding of self through the roadmap of life.

You may find yourself going up through the mountains on Overcomer Highway. You may visit Respite Place at the foothills beside a beautiful peaceful lake for some time out. You may find yourself a few times in the desert of Internally Stuck Avenue, you know the place, that endless vicious cycle that never seems to have a way out! And you may even wind your way down into Give Up Close, that cave or pit, we hang out alone in sometimes. Whatever path we are on, we discover and learn more things about ourselves. When we get the opportunity to be at Acceptance Round-a-bout that’s when we make a choice what road we actually travel upon. If we continue to not deal with the life event, we might find ourselves on that rollercoaster ever circling Internally Stuck (the suffering road). This road is not all bad, sometimes we need to build up our courage, and growth does come from suffering.

In DBT, Marsha Linehan, talks about radical acceptance. If we accept, then we are willing and free; if we don’t accept, then we are wilful and su fer. Acceptance doesn’t mean we approve of what happened to us. Acceptance means we acknowledge that this life event happened and work out the best strategies to move on and not let the event drag us down any further. The more we stay on the “suffering road”, the more we are using all our energy to fight, and our health will deteriorate because the amount of stress and cortisol that is mounting up can cause long-term damage.

To learn more about acceptance, read inspire stories, see amazing outback Australian photography, be empowered in learning about the top 5 movement therapies to improve your mental health and heal illnesses – grab your copy of issue 3 today!

Mel